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As painful as they can be, breakups are something that we all have to go through. Sometimes people just grow apart, and sometimes it just becomes unbearable to deal with the person that you’ve been involved with and the only thing you can do is breakup. It sucks having to tell your friends and family that your girlfriend isn’t around any more because she dumped you.
Usually, before the breakup comes there are some sort of signs that things are about to fall apart. Just so you won’t be surprised when she drops the “I think we should just be friends” hammer on you, I have compiled a list of ways to tell that she’s just not into you any more.
She Doesn’t Contact You Like She Used To
Usually in the early stages of a relationship there is constant contact. Communication by phone calls, text messages, emails, instant messaging usually takes up a great deal of your day when you meet someone new that you really like. As you get closer with your new love interest that constant communication may slow down a little, but you should be talking and communicating regularly throughout the day. But the first sign that something is going wrong usually comes when the amount of communication begins to drop. Instead of talking to each other all day via text messages and email, you may only get one or two messages a day and possibly a phone call. It’s usually hard for women to fake it. If she isn’t feeling a situation, she isn’t going to force herself to talk to you. More than likely she is going to shut down and you are going to have to investigate a little to find out what is bothering her. Sometimes, you may call and after a few minutes of conversation she will find a reason to get off of the phone. If you notice a pattern similar to this, you might want to start packing your bags.
She Avoids Talking About The Future
Women like men who are willing to commit their time to them, and especially men who are able to make plans for long term future commitments. If you start to bring up things like next year’s summer vacation, or where you all are going to spend the next holiday season and she doesn’t show signs of interest or attempt to give any real feedback it means that she doesn’t plan on keeping you around long enough for any of those things to take place.
Lack of effort