You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I read your posts daily and love…

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Email your questions to Your Gay Best Friend at: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, Almost three years ago I…

Why do Black Women Love Thugs? Actress Lauren London ruffled a few feathers after an interview with King Magazine. She was asked about her preference in men, and whether she liked an “honest thug.” Her response was: “I love guys who are street. I won’t even give soft guys a chance. Menace II Society is […]

On October 3, 1992, after a three year courtship, President Barack Obama and Michelle Robinson were pronounced man and wife by Reverend Jeremiah A. Wright…

Dear other woman, Stop being trifling. Signed, Womanhood (well, minus all polygamists) This Valentine’s Day some woman will again feel like “shyt people feel on…

What can you really say when your aunt tells you you’ve gained some weight when you arrive home for the holidays? This was me two…

SHOWTIME SAYS… Here is the video footage from the Love and Hip Hop party that I hosted with Yandy and Kimbella from VH1 at Club Bodi in downtown Raleigh.

Dear Gay Best Friend, I’ve been in as rocky relationship for three years. My boyfriend infected me with HIV.  He unknowingly had it for years. My treatment is going well and high in numbers. His is low and stable. We don’t talk about it with each other. I emotionally cheated on him just to feel […]

Affirmation For Today: I Deserve A Loving, Healthy Relationship. An affirmation is a great way to start training your mind toward a positive way of thinking.  Coupled with other positive thinking exercises, a positive affirmation will help you overcome any obstacle that is put in front of you.  The object of these positive thinking exercises […]

You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I am happily married to my husband for 6 years. We have an open understanding relationship, i.e. open on his end and understanding on my end. He is allowed to pleasure other women while I listen, watch or on rare […]

We all have miracle people in our lives. It is in the quietest moments of our mind that we realize that we have been blessed with those gifts. They help us stand. The rescue us from disasters. Trinity 5:7 Celebrates #1 Gospel Album With Upcoming Chicago Appearance The song lyrics: Yeah, you’re more than what […]

In order to experience happiness and contentment with others, you must be unconditionally and authentically in love with the “self” – not selfish – but empowered and secure enough to know how to give and receive love.  When we master the love of self, find happiness in our accomplishments, understand our needs and are comfortable […]