As I reviewed the list of problems that Michelle had with her husband Scott I only had one thing on my mind. How can I convince Michelle that none of these problems will ever happen again? I can teach Scott. Training men to be husbands is not a problem for me. As I reviewed the list again and again looking for an angle, searching for a place to start I noticed that a majority of the issues took place before Michelle and Scott were married. They have been married for 6 years! She has been holding on to these issues for six or more years? WOW! I immediately called Michelle and let her know that when you get married, you start over. You wipe the slate clean. You can’t bring anything outside of the marriage into the marriage.
Hello Michelle this is Steven James Dixon. Is this a good time to talk?
I am reviewing your list here and noticed that you have 54 items. Please hear me out when I say that having 54 complaints about your husband is too many complaints. Many of your complaints are extremely valid and are things that I will discuss in detail with your husband but some I feel are a bit nitpicky. (I say this in the most sensitive tone that I can.)
“He did those things to me. You can’t take that from me. They all hurt, I remember them all and I am not forgiving him for doing those things to me.”
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